I need some help!!!! What grit do you guys and gals sand your projects to before staining and finishing? It seems that every article I read says something different! I am building a sewing desk for my mother for Christmas and am just about to that stage. I read somewhere to only sand to 150 because the stain needs something to "bite". Is that really enough? I always learned to sand to 220! AAAGGGGHHHHH! Help!!!!