Roger, You can't please everybody. When we started the first lunch group in Greensboro many years ago we tried to do that.
It did not work.
You have to choose a site, choose a day of the month and time.
Then be dedicated to showing up every month.
It will be tough at first but should steadily grow.
Good luck and we are all glad you are doing this. We need more around the State.
For those in Charlotte, please pick a place and time. Just do it.