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07-08-2008, 03:21 PM
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Name: Tom City: Clayton State: NC County: Johnston Join Date: May 2008 Age: 56 Avg Visit Freq/Week = 3.73 over 180 days | I mentioned in my intro that I had a detached garage to turn into a workshop. I'd been progressing satisfactorily until I had a little dust-up with our next-door neighbors. Seems they've taken a dislike to us for reasons unknown. I had one pleasant conversation with the Mr the day we moved in in March, but since then they've ignored us, even to the extent of looking away when we wave to them from our driveway, which is about 25 feet from theirs. Almost immediately after moving in they started playing very loud music in their garage, which faces us, with the door halfway open every time we were outside making a little noise, like mowing the lawn, and leaving it on for hours. When I went over last week to ask them to turn it down I saw that there were two large speakers set up in the garage door with no one around. When he finally came outside after I knocked repeatedly on their doors, and then the missus came out looking totally enraged, we had one of the more bizarre conversations of my life. Basically, it was their opinion that if I make noise, like mowing, they can make noise to "counteract" it. They were "enjoying it from the inside of their house." I asked why they needed to put the loudspeakers in the garage with the door open, and they said our garage door was open too and we make noise so they can make noise. It got stranger after that. After he mentioned that I was on his property a couple times and don't knock on his door anymore I decided it was time to walk away, which I did. Somehow, I don't think noise is really the issue but can't identify anything we've done or said that might have offended them, which was easy since we have never spoken to them except the one time!)
Anyhow, with all that I am now paranoid about making any sound at all if we are going to get blasted by them, but I will have to make some serious noise from time-to-time and don't need a hassle with neighbors/HOA/police. So, what do you recommend for soundproofing? I'd already planned on putting in a double stud wall with various soundproofing techniques I've picked up on the internet, but I don't have a good solution for the garage door. Suggestions have been: 1. a new insulated door; 2. insulate the old door myself; 3. build a stud wall inside the door; 4. apply soundproofing material inside the door (but what about the weight?); 5. various combinations of the above. Have any of you dealt with the noise issue from a neighbor's point of view? Thanks for any advice you might give (and for sticking with this long post).
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07-08-2008, 03:31 PM
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Name: Doug Robinson City: Raleigh State: NC County: Wake Join Date: Jul 2006 Age: 47 Avg Visit Freq/Week = 6.92 over 180 days | Tom:
Sorry to hear about the "bad neighbor" situation. I would recommend trying to reason with them one more time. Send them a nice letter and say that you are sorry if you have offeended or annoyed them in any way. If your mowing has been a problem, ask them how it bothered them and how you can accommodate them. Make it clear you want to be a good neighbor and invite them to come over and talk to you. (That way you do not need to come on their property.) Be prepared that their response may still be weird, e.g., what ever you "did" may not be offensive to normal people. Since you are going to run a woodshop and will need to make some noise time and again, ask them how you can do this so as to minimize any bother to them.
Even if youtry to sound proof your shop they may still act irrationally. You might as well try to nip it in the bud.
Doug
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07-08-2008, 03:40 PM
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Name: Mike City: Westfield State: NC County: Stokes Join Date: Dec 2005 Age: 51 Avg Visit Freq/Week = 6.88 over 180 days | I had neighbors like that once, the only way to solve the problem is to move away.
Well, there is another way but it's not legal.  |
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07-08-2008, 03:49 PM
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Name: Geoff City: Lillington State: NC County: Harnett Join Date: Jan 2008 Avg Visit Freq/Week = 7.00 over 180 days | Be very careful in how you approach this especially if you have a HOA. Check your restrictions and make sure you will not be in violation by using your garage for a workshop. Don't laugh, I build communities for a living and you would be surprised what ends up in those covenants. Unless you are a lawyer, don't send them anything in writing. Verbal is always better until you need to use a lawyer. Perhaps it is a racial or religious thing? Maybe the guy might be irritated because you mow on his holy day? Good luck and keep us posted!! |
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07-08-2008, 03:54 PM
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Name: Tom City: Raleigh State: NC County: Wake Join Date: Jul 2005 Age: 46 Avg Visit Freq/Week = 6.92 over 180 days | Wow, it does sound a little weird. It sounds (pun intended) like you are doing all you can to reduce the noise in the shop. Is there a real need to have the garage doors on the building? I would suggest removing them and putting in a wall with a double entry door in its place. This would also get rid of the door tracks in the shop. There is nothing you could not get in the double doors size wise, and it would look nice too. On a side note my shop is detached and is not even insulated yet and is a lot quieter then I thought it would be. With my dust collector and small planner running you can barely hear it in the shop, so as I insulate it should get even quieter. my .02 cents worth. Good luck with the neighbors. |
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07-08-2008, 04:57 PM
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Name: Bas City: Cary State: NC County: Wake Join Date: Aug 2007 Age: 35 Avg Visit Freq/Week = 6.96 over 180 days | A tough situation. What's that expression - people you can't stand will annoy you the way they hold their glass when they drink, whereas people you like can dump a plate of spaghetti in your lap without a fuss?
My suggestion: Have a belated "housewarming" party. Your average cookout and cold drinks. Keep the crowd pretty small, just the people in the neighborhood. Have some simple wooden toys on hand to give away to the kids to become an instant hero. Afterward, present your neighbors with a hand-made cutting board "for the inconvenience". Not accepting it would be rude. Accepting it and then later complaining about your woodworking would be hypocritical
Insulating the door is still a good idea, if only to keep out the heat. I'd try insulation panels first, simple, light and cheap. Tell your neighbor you did this, to show good faith. Even if the noise doesn't go down a whole lot, you can score points for effort.
Yes, it's a pain having to bend over backwards when you haven't really done anything wrong, but you're right, if they make a stink, you'll probably end up being the loser.
Good luck.
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07-08-2008, 05:05 PM
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Name: George City: Fuquay Varina State: NC County: Wake Join Date: Nov 2005 Age: 47 Avg Visit Freq/Week = 6.96 over 180 days | I'm with Mike on this one... uh, for his second suggestion
And, it's only illegal if you get caught, or something like that
George |
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07-08-2008, 06:04 PM
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Name: Mike Gilley City: Willow Spring State: NC County: Wake Join Date: Nov 2007 Age: 40 Avg Visit Freq/Week = 4.32 over 180 days | Tom,
As far as the door question; I know that an insulated door can significantly reduce the amount of noise. The garage at our old house was maybe 20 feet from the house, and you couldn't hear any of the shop equipment running -unless the door was open.
When we moved into our new house, the first thing I did was insulate the garage door with the 2" thick rigid foam, and it dramatically cut down the noise as well, without adding a lot of extra weight to the door.
As far as the oddball neighbor; I'm truly sorry to hear about the misunderstanding that they seem to have.
I thought I might have had a similar issue with my new neighbor when we first moved in and I started using my planer for a few days after work. My neighbor came by to see what was causing all the noise and I apologized immediately.
Fortunately for me, he didn't have a problem with it, just reminded me that the noise restrictions don't kick in until 10pm.
And now he enjoys the fact that he has a woodworker for a neighbor  .
Just my nickels worth, take it for what it's worth.
Regards,
Mike
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07-08-2008, 06:24 PM
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Name: Tom City: Clayton State: NC County: Johnston Join Date: May 2008 Age: 56 Avg Visit Freq/Week = 3.73 over 180 days | Guys:
Thanks for all your comments.
Doug:
You're right about trying to nip it in the bud. I may give it a try, but given the weirdness level I may try to find out more about the situation more circumspectly. The original owner of our house stopped by once while we were outside and mentioned, without prompting, that the neighbor "did his own thing." It sounded a little strange but we didn't really catch on. I may give him a call.
Geoff:
We have a covenant in the section on in-home businesses regarding "activities that may be or become an annoyance or nuisance." I suppose that could mean me. That's why I'm going to great lengths to soundproof it. Hopefully, there will be some sort of reasonableness standard if it comes down to it. But I know HOA's aren't always reasonable, so I'll have to tread lightly.
Tom:
Love your shop. It looks almost identical to mine except I have an attic. Your aquarium also looks like mine before I got rid of it when we moved down here. Great minds (especially ones named Tom) think alike!
Bas:
I like the party idea. We actually thought about that after being here a couple of months. We may yet give it a try, but I'm certain they won't show up.
Cheers,
Tom |
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07-08-2008, 08:47 PM
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Name: Mike City: Westfield State: NC County: Stokes Join Date: Dec 2005 Age: 51 Avg Visit Freq/Week = 6.88 over 180 days | Actually a friend of mine had a similar situation that went to court. The neighbor's activities were judged to be unusual and inflammatory while my friend was making a reasonable sound level during working hours and caused by normal activities. The judge threw the neighbor's case out and warned him not to turn up his stereo and leave the house or he would be facing charges.
Of course, his case has no bearing on your situation since it was in a different state and over twenty years ago.  |
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07-08-2008, 09:33 PM
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Name: Scott Smith City: New Hill State: NC County: Chatham Join Date: Mar 2007 Avg Visit Freq/Week = 5.44 over 180 days | I second Doug's suggestion. I would not bring up their unusual behavior, but focus on asking their advice about what you can do to be a good neighbor for them, mowing times, etc. |
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07-08-2008, 11:25 PM
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Name: Chris City: Raleigh State: NC County: Wake Join Date: Jan 2008 Avg Visit Freq/Week = 0.58 over 180 days | Tom,
You might want to check with your HOA to see if the officers would be willing to act as mediators of (better) if they have mediation firm on retainer. I would hate to hear that this initial strangeness and confrontation has blown up into a greater conflict!
Good Luck!
Chris |
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07-08-2008, 11:48 PM
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Name: Phillip Cooper City: Maiden State: NC County: Catawba Join Date: Dec 2006 Age: 47 Avg Visit Freq/Week = 6.34 over 180 days | My shop is very well insulated, has as much insulation in the walls as six inches of stud can stand. I also have insulated windows and an insulated door with adequate weatherstripping on it, all that and you can hardly hear my dust collector or compressor or even the planer running if you are standing right outside. That being said, if your neighbor can't stand the noise after you've done all that, then you'll never make them happy. Some folks need a life and use their unhappiness to make others miserable. That is one nice thing about living in the country, no neighbors, no HOA, no noise restrictions. I do try to live so that others aren't offended though. Sounds like you're doing the right thing, sorry they won't be reasonable.
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07-09-2008, 07:39 AM
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Name: Mark City: Vass State: NC County: Moore Join Date: May 2006 Avg Visit Freq/Week = 0.70 over 180 days | if all else falis take the muffler off your lawn mower and have fun with it |
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07-09-2008, 08:47 AM
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Name: Barry City: Davidson State: NC County: Cabarrus Join Date: Dec 2007 Age: 39 Avg Visit Freq/Week = 3.38 over 180 days | You have to ask youself if the friendship/tolerance/or what ever it is you want in a relationship them worth the trouble you are going thru? I doubt there will be anything you can do now that will make much of a difference. Maybe they just don't like change and when you moved in it changed the dynamic of their comfort zone. The only thing that is going to make a difference is going to be time. You do your thing and don't worry so much about how it is affecting them. If they know they are getting under you skin the behavior might continue.
I won't even get started on how I feel about HOAs!!!
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