Originally Posted by SubGuy
Should I try to raise the grain on the whole table and then reapply? Would 320 be to fine a grit? I also thought about buying some pure beeswax and melting it to make a more...Resistant(?) finish. Good idea? Sorry to be asking so much but I really have no idea. Thanks Bas!
Zach
Two thoughts on that. Yes, you can raise the grain on the whole table to "get it over with". Just use a spray bottle of water, let it dry thoroughly, sand, and finish. That's probably your best bet. But, cutting boards/ tables need to be periodically renewed anyway (I oil mine once every 2 months or so), so you can also do this as-you-go as well.
Sanding with 320 grit should work. The main thing is to not over sand, because then you not only take off the "whiskers", you expose a new layer of wood that will raise again when wet. With 320 grit, I tend to go too heavy because it doesn't feel like anything is coming off

But that's me. I'm not sure meting wax into the top will help a lot. It wouldn't penetrate very deeply anyway. I found that with an oil/ paraffin wax mixture, the wax eventually just floated on top and solidified. If anything, I'd add more oil.
Expectations matter a lot. My mother-in-law didn't use her cutting board for about a year because it was just too pretty to use. Finally, she broke down. It will get scratched, develop dull spots, show wear etc. That's the nature of the beast.